Breast Cancer - My Story

Breast Cancer – My Story

It started with a lump my husband noticed in 2016. Initially diagnosed as a benign cyst, it was a year later that a cautious radiographer spotted something concerning. A biopsy confirmed breast cancer, deep, hidden, and undetectable by touch. The diagnosis was shocking, but I was determined. I’d seen others go through it and knew the process.

Treatment was swift: a lumpectomy, no chemotherapy, and a fortunate prognosis. But being treated at the hospital where I worked blurred the lines between professional and patient. Support groups felt alienating, people knew me for my role and not as a patient. I didn’t return to the local group and isolation took a toll. A year later, when I received the “No Evidence of Disease” note, the emotional weight hit me. I broke down, feeling totally overwhelmed.

Eventually, I was referred to an incredible counsellor and a support group where I could truly connect. It helped me but returning to work was too hard. I left fundraising, only to return later - this time for a mental health charity, because I now understand how vital it is to be heard and supported.

Key Messages:

  • A cancer diagnosis can be emotionally isolating, especially when professional roles blur with personal experience.

  • Support systems must consider the emotional and practical needs of staff undergoing treatment.

  • Peer support is powerful, connecting with others who truly understand can be transformative.

  • Recovery isn’t just physical; emotional healing takes time and deserves attention.